tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6204590.post7783935682045562471..comments2023-06-09T21:55:21.770+10:00Comments on <a href="https://effingtheineffable.blogspot.com.au/">effing the ineffable</a>: reality checkfishboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05861785707797227077noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6204590.post-16303102825529780282010-06-16T16:12:24.638+10:002010-06-16T16:12:24.638+10:00xxeroicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05489295096336063886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6204590.post-38302589820282124682010-06-16T11:39:23.661+10:002010-06-16T11:39:23.661+10:00I hear you but I truly believed I was choosing rig...I hear you but I truly believed I was choosing right this time. I've made bad decisions in the past but thought that was past me. And to an extent it is - I'm not investing in the same insane manipulative women I used to. But somehow the outcome isn't much better.<br /><br />You met Sam and, while she definitely has faults, she's certainly not crazy, duplicitous or a player. As it turns out I wasn't right for her (and vice versa, if I'm honest) but there were many things that worked. The awful situation that has come about is nothing she would ever have wished for I'm certain.<br /><br />Ah well, chalk it up to experience and move on - try to make sure the next one is the <b>right</b> one..fishboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05861785707797227077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6204590.post-73636352874421225962010-06-16T03:23:07.437+10:002010-06-16T03:23:07.437+10:00I used to think that I invested too much in that c...I used to think that I invested too much in that connection as well... until I began to understand that I was investing it in the wrong people. <br /><br />Just something to consider. :)Jennoreply@blogger.com